Ashlyn has always been a little stubborn and a lot determined but recently both qualities have come to a head with this overwhelming desire to make her own choices and do things her own way.
Getting dressed in the morning is a fun ordeal every day. I raise up shirts A, B, C and D and ask which she'd like to wear and inevitably she'll say she wants none of them and will choose option E.
Generally speaking when I ask her if she wants something her first answer is "No", but then after she has a couple seconds to think about it and make it HER idea, she'll say "Actually... I want that one." (The one I offered the first time.)
Normally this behavior can grate on my nerves, but last night made me laugh:
Me: "Ashlyn, would you like to say family prayer?"
Ashlyn: "NO! You say it!!"
Me: "Okay, I'll ask someone else to say the prayer."
[Ashlyn's face goes from stubborn devil to elated angel as she jumps up and down and raises her hand]
Ashlyn: "Oo, oo, can I say the prayer??"
I rest my case.