Well, it's time for my monthly post. Seems I don't get a chance to post as often as I'd like, nor do I take as many pictures of my kids as I used to. (Ashlyn's childhood is seriously lacking in documentation so far!) But, I do what I can.
The last few weeks I have been marking my time by the growth of my peach tree. See, a couple of weeks ago I took the advice of a nice man from Minnesota ("dontcha kno'?") who made an infomative 8 minute YouTube video on how to prune peach trees. He pruned an entire peach tree in 4 minutes flat and it looked like an upside-down broken umbrella when he was done (on purpose, mind). I was a little shocked at how much of the growth he cut off--everything skinnier than a "pencil" got chopped off completely and then he cut just about everything else back by about half! I had to give myself a little pep-talk before I made that kind of dramatic sheering on my little 3-year-old tree. But, before I knew it, I was hacking away! My peach tree went from a huge bush of "sticks" to a skeleton. Shocking. Eliza kept saying, "Mom, but how will the tree grow if you keep cutting it back?"
Fantastic question, Eliza.
I was so tempted to get into a beautiful speech about the importance of pruning back the unnecessary things in our lives to make room for growth of the essentials, but I didn't. I simply said, "Sometimes you gotta cut the tree back to help it grow later."
And so, for days I held my breath to see how my little peach tree would fair. Did I kill it? Is it too shocked at losing so much of it's appendages?? I was so worried that I had cut too much...
Then, about a week ago, Eliza screamed from the yard for me to come see the tree. (Apparently I wasn't the only one worried about the poor thing!)
I came out and saw this:

Not only was the tree alive, but it has started to blossom!
{Exhale}
Looks like I did right.
In other news, Ezra is growing up. It's so surreal for me how much of little man he is now instead of a toddler. Just recently he threw a fit about something (it escapes me what it was about...) and so I sent him to his room and told him he could come back when he was calm.
He got quiet in there a few minutes later so I went to check on him (thinking he'd cried himself to sleep), but he was just lying on the floor with his blanket sucking his thumb. He looked so sweet and childlike in that position. But then, he defied my assessment by sitting up and looking straight into my eyes and with tears welling up in them he said, "Mom, I am really, really sorry. I shouldn't have thrown a fit like that." And then he gave me a great big hug and a sweet, sincere kiss on the cheek.
{Heart clenching}
He has come a long way. Even months before he wouldn't have acted with that type of maturity to understand his folly and try to make restitution.
I'll happily log this Mommy Moment away in my "Jewels" file.